I performed this ritual several years later for my daughter after her divorce. She did the Ritual with her ex-husband. She too found it to be very powerful. It was powerful for me to perform because I recognised so many patterns from my relationship with her father and saw others from his parents who were also separated. How many of our relationship issues are passed down from one generation to another?
Our religions and beliefs entice us to make commitments, some we can't keep. If we break our commitments we have to live with ourselves and how that makes us feel. Divorce only handles the division of property, including what happens to the children. It is not an emotional solution to the pain that comes from our broken promises. There are many other promises people make besides marriage. to our parents, our children and to our Self to our country. Many return from tours of military service having made a huge promise, even killed for that promise and there has been no way to undo their pledge, or way to forgive themselves.
I know I wasn't aware when I made promises in front of witnesses, that these witnesses are a collective consciousness there to remind us of our promises. They don't have to say a word, their presence reminds us. This is especially difficult in marriage for the partner left, not ready to revoke their promises.
My belief tells me that if I can't love me, no one can. I must forgive myself and often I need a powerful ally and witness to make my promise of forgiveness as powerful as the initial promise was.
This is what the UnMarrying Rites do, they allow the recipient to UnMarry, undo promises that they choose to no longer keep and create a new space of freedom and love in their heart. I am your ally and your witness.
An UnMarrying Ritual lasts 1 1/2 to 2 hours, my fee is $125.00
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